tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-51439561363673714682024-03-19T07:11:02.130-05:00THE BREEZEWAYCELEBRATING FAMILY FROM SEA TO SHINING SEAEileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-421751888076885782011-08-05T07:42:00.048-05:002011-08-06T09:59:44.145-05:00Eating is a Celebration of Life?We've always been relatively healthy eaters in our house. I have a good relationship with food, which I realize is not always the case for many adults. Food serves two purposes for me: fuel for my body and an opportunity to enjoy my relationships. I've always believed that eating can be an expression of gratitude for life's gifts and pleasures. But lately, I'm starting to wonder. Don't get me wrong, I still find joy in food: preparing it, sharing it, and eating it! It's just that lately, the more I read about food - where it comes from, how much it is changed before it reaches my local grocery store, and how those changes can affect our health - the more I begin to freak out!<br />
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Ever since joining our meat CSA last March, the issue of how our family's food is "handled" has become pretty interesting to me. It's not that we've completely confined our focus to meat - we've been trying to buy organic or hormone-free milk for a few years now. We really do try to minimize processed foods, too. Just yesterday, the Talker announced over a picnic lunch that he does not eat store-bought cookies anymore. "I just don't like them," he said. I don't like them, either, and I've only occasionally bought cookies over the last few years. All those preservatives gross me out! Do we just go without cookies, you ask? ABSOLUTELY NOT! I make them, and we eat them with great pleasure! Yes, I realize that many of the ingredients in homemade cookies have been processed in one way or another, but it's the freshness factor that makes it okay for me. The thing that gets to me is all the marketing by food companies to tout their products' health benefits, when really, we should just choose an apple with peanut butter over that FiberOne bar! The poor apple doesn't have the help of advertising gurus slapping labels all over its skin to tell you about its health benefits. <br />
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So, when I was contacted by<a href="http://www.stonyfield.com/"> Stonyfield Farm</a> to attend a luncheon with mom and food activist <a href="http://www.allergykids.com/">Robyn O'Brien,</a> I jumped at the chance. Thanks to my new Kindle, I was able to read about half of her book, <a href="http://www.robynobrien.com/"><u>The Unhealthy Truth</u></a>, before meeting her last week at <a href="http://www.naha-chicago.com/">NAHA</a> in Chicago. Her story is incredible, really. As a mother of four small children, Robyn was forced to pay attention to toxins in her family's foods when her youngest child had an allergic reaction to eggs. Distressed that her child would have to be protected from a food that she had assumed was safe, Robyn began researching food allergies. Tapping into her experiences as an equity analyst, she dove in to the world of corporate profits and government oversight (or lack of it). She is clear in her understanding of what drives the food industry (money!), and because of her background she has a healthy respect for capitalism. She gets that corporations are all about the bottom line, and that it is the consumers’ right and responsibility to be informed about food products before buying them. It’s the lack of information that irritates her. <br />
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Think: Can you identify and recognize all ingredients are in your sandwich bread? How about the hormones and antibiotics in your glass of cold milk? (The hormones are to increase milk production and the antibiotics are for when the hormones make the cows sick. They tend to get mastitis. Yep, cows get it, too!) Oh, my: what about your <i>coffee creamer? </i>I was an International Delight addict until I gave the stuff up for Lent this spring. That was a tough one! I thought I was all good with my White Chocolate Macadamia Nut creamer because it was <i>transfat free</i>. Nope, it’s full of high-sugar soy, which, interestingly, is fed to pigs to fatten them quickly for slaughter. My plain ol’ half-and-half tastes quite good these days, thank you very much.<br />
Now think again: of those ingredients you can identify as corn or soy based (because they are in almost everything that has been processed in one way or another), how many can you identify as <i>genetically modified foods</i>? Yeah, none? Me, neither. That’s because the FDA doesn’t require food manufacturers to label genetically modified foods as such. I suppose that would be okay, if the safety of genetically modified foods had been proven, which, you guess it: it hasn’t.<br />
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As I think and write about this, I realize that it sounds a bit like a conspiracy theory. For the longest time I thought the whole “organic thing” was a load of bull. I mean, a peach is a peach, right? But the more I discover about the current state of conventional farming, the scarier it all gets. <br />
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Last weekend I was driving out to our meat farm, Walnut Acres, in central Illinois. Walnut Acres is a small livestock farm thriving in the shadow of conventional corn and soybean farms. As much as I enjoyed driving through the nation’s breadbasket, a few scenes gave me pause. The most dramatic was the low-flying airplane that was about 25 feet above our car. A crop-sprayer, no doubt. When I was a kid, I thought crop-sprayers were super cool; it was a job that looked fun! But at that moment, all I could think about was the pesticides that were being sprayed on corn that had been genetically modified to withstand giant doses of incesticide. Pesticides that could, in all reality, end up in the small bodies of the sweet children all strapped in behind me. Besides feeling grossed out, I also felt guilty for the toxins that are, in all likelihood, already floating around under their soft skin. <br />
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So, what now? Honestly, I don’t know. As I mentioned, we’re already doing our best to eliminate as many processed foods as possible. At the very least, we’re committed to buying milk with the rBGH-free farmer pledge. Last week, I bought organic half-and-half for my coffee, and at this moment we have only organic yogurt in the fridge. Our favorite pasta is an organic, whole wheat variety, and we stock up when it goes on sale at the grocery store. We try to stick to meat and eggs from Walnut Acres, though we do buy conventional meat on occasion. So I suppose we’re off to a good start. <br />
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Despite all the health and environmental benefits of going organic, such a commitment is still an expensive one. Believe me, that is a concern for us! I am still trying to figure out how to budget for organic food in our life, but at the same time, in the face of all this information, I’m not sure how I can turn away from such a commitment. If it were just me, then maybe I wouldn’t worry so much. But with three small kids who have their whole beautiful lives ahead of them, I know we owe it to them to give them safe foods to eat.<br />
And lest you think, “Hey, I grew up on conventional produce and regular milk! What’s the big deal??” I get that. I was thinking the same thing until I read Robyn’s book. As it turns out, cows weren’t given hormones until the mid-1990s, and I’d done most of my growing by then. Genetically modified corn and soy are recent additions to the fields, too. So yes, we DID grow up on conventionally farmed foods – but folks, those seem to be long-gone. We all know there are issues in our American food landscape: obesity, allergies, childhood disorders like autism and ADHD – issues that are on the rise just in the last 15 years. Is it coincidence that all of these altered foods hit the shelves beginning around this time? Though it’s impossible to prove causation, I’m not sure I want to take chances with my kids’ futures.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-32665659401505360032011-07-30T23:20:00.000-05:002011-07-30T23:20:35.578-05:00Marathon Training, Take TwoIt's official: I'm all signed up to run the Detroit Free Press Marathon on October 16th. The last time I wrote about marathon training I was three days in - and unknowingly two weeks pregnant. Ooops! One beautiful, big baby and 14 months later, I am lacing up my New Balance 890s and logging my miles in a complex-looking (but quite simple!) Excel spreadsheet developed for me by - who else? - the Runner.<br />
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The mindset of a distance runner is slowly returning, too. It's been a long time since I've allowed myself the joy of committing to a race this long, and I'm enjoying the familiar routine of training. It's a rediscovery of self, in a way. Motherhood has a way of taking up all my time! Go figure.<br />
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I'd better not say any more. I could jinx myself and end up with another baby. ;)Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-20051816872168883562011-07-29T14:46:00.000-05:002011-07-29T14:46:28.592-05:00Community Supported Agriculture in the Big City[This post originally appeared on the Chicago Moms Blog on March 18, 2010. I am reposting it here because I've been thinking a LOT about food and where it comes from lately. More on that very soon!]<br />
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Not too long ago, my husband and I took advantage of the watch-it-now-! feature on Netflix. I was hoping for a cuddle-worthy romantic comedy or perhaps an episode of Glee. No such luck: it was documentary night. He had just finished reading In Defense of Food by Michael Pollan and was chattering on about eating mostly plants and decreasing our meat consumption. We agreed on watching Food, Inc., since we'd been hearing a lot about it from friends. So after a few minutes of fiddling with various cords to connect the laptop to the television, the enlightenment started. I have to admit, I was riveted. Of course we were disturbed (isn't that the point of almost every documentary?), but I was also completely grossed out. This yuk-factor motivated me to search for alternatives to the conventional meat we buy at our local grocery store. I had heard about Community Supported Agriculture, or CSA, from various friends, but only for produce. Finding a CSA that offered meat in the Chicago area took a little more digging, but after a bit of research we decided to join <a href="http://www.walnut4meat.com">Walnut Acres Family Farm</a>.<br />
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CSAs are smaller farms that grow produce, or in the case of Walnut Acres, meat, poultry, and eggs. The cattle are full time pasture animals, eating mostly grass and hay. This was a relief to hear after contemplating the conventional method of cattle farming. It seems that "conventional" methods have become quite complicated and, in reality, unnatural. I know I have almost zero awareness of where our food comes from and the effort it takes to provide it. <br />
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My son and I are reading Little House in the Big Woods right now - and I realized with a shock that the images of Pa smoking pig and hanging the meat in the attic (obviously uninsulated!) for winter consumption were brand new concepts for him. It's not that I think this lack of awareness is a bad thing - he is only four. Maybe it was my own detachment that was jolting. Despite this, I definitely do not want to run right out and put a downpayment on a farm - I struggle with keeping the vegetable garden weeded in the summer!<br />
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We don't pick up our first "meat installment" until March 20th, but I am looking forward to supporting a local farmer and getting a bit of our grocery budget in line with our emerging family beliefs. My husband and I talk a lot about finding ways to live local - supporting our Main Street family businesses and shopping the Farmers' Market in the warmer months - but I guess making a commitment to at least three months of membership in the CSA, it feels like a more authentic leap towards a true relationship with our food and the farmers responsible for harvesting it.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-14045212283126550772011-06-27T22:27:00.003-05:002011-06-27T22:30:27.225-05:00Memories and Boogies<br />
Today I'm sharing a suppressed memory of a meal with The Talker. No wonder he is such a slow eater: all that thinking and talking and thinking gets in the way of chewing and swallowing! Enjoy!</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal">[Sometime during the Fall of 2009] Today began innocently enough: some definite cleaning up to do around the house, the typical rushing to get out the door on time. Nothing out of the ordinary. The Talker and I ate breakfast together – at the table! Wait – <i>that </i>is out of the ordinary! In the middle of a cheesy bite of a half-cream cheese, half-butter half of bagel (can you picture it?), he asked me, "Are boogies plants that grow in your nose?" <o:p></o:p><br />
"No," I answered, suppressing a newly caffeinated smile. "Why?"<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">From there we embarked on a graphic explanation of how boogies are made by your nose. I swear that I appreciate the little things our bodies do more and more as I help my child understand how his miraculous little body works. The hardest thing for him to understand was the dirt particles in the air. Almost four-year-olds have to see it to believe it!<o:p></o:p></div>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-53769179107477409102011-05-06T22:36:00.002-05:002011-05-06T22:37:51.030-05:00Wearing the Baby and Staying Warm<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYuqSzmekljfD7KtwhTDT4sgDz9VdpJyrFK8c72E_IfQbHe5lqbv71EDC2_1OAjRw8Hx0AlllH2Prk9wYwDkfp5VcmscVeP3iwSkfWtE4f3f0jXKp9XZv3zGhdrb2DfmukqC2t6vBaDPE/s1600/DSCF3020.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"> </a></div>The benefits of "baby wearing" may seem obvious: babies, especially newborns, prefer to be squished up close to their mommies. Not only do they desire to be as close as possible, they also need it for healthy development. Touch is probably our most powerful gift as parents of infants - we communicate most through touch during these early months.<br />
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But there are so many benefits for moms, too. Being close to your baby promotes bonding, of course, and it also calms him when he is fussy. An upright position can help baby manage reflux or colic, and allow her to sleep when lying down isn't an option because it makes her uncomfortable. A calm baby definitely benefits mom - reducing stress levels when things are hectic around the house. And when multiple children are around, wearing the youngest one gives both hands the freedom to keep someone else from running in the street, falling down stairs, or drawing on the walls with permanent marker. (Don't laugh, that is seriously what I need my hands for during the day! Forget folding laundry or doing dishes - though you can do that while wearing baby, too.) Wearing the Bruiser in the sling has prevented Miss Rosie from breaking bones or climbing on the counter in an attempt to reach the scissors, which are stored in a box on top of the fridge. I suppose slings could also be used to restrain daredevils like my daughter, at least until they are old enough to learn to use scissors properly.<br />
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Because I knew that I would be wearing the Bruiser quite a bit, because the weather in Chicago isn't exactly tropical, and because I am a knitter, I made a baby wearing poncho to don while using my sling. I was inspired by a poncho on a Danish website called <a href="http://www.mamaponcho.ch/home_EN.html">MamaPoncho</a>. Though the ponchos were absolutely gorgeous, they were also expensive! Over $200. So I started scouring knitting books in the library and searching through <a href="http://www.ravelry.com/">Ravelry</a> to see what I could find. After a long, dedicated search I gave up trying to find a pattern that I really liked. So I let the "Eleanor" pattern in <u>Viva Poncho: Twenty Ponchos and Caplets to Knit</u>, by Christina Stork and Leslie Barbazette to inspire me. After a few modifications, voila! I've got myself a useful poncho to wear while wearing the Bruiser! Or honestly, Miss Rosie, who still needs the sling every now and again. Not that I mind, she is pretty cute and cuddly when she's not running with scissors on the stairs or in oncoming traffic.<br />
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And best of all, it keeps the Bruiser and I warm enough to brave the park on these chilly May afternoons here in the upper Midwest. Lucky us!Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-92045387142244437682011-05-05T14:52:00.001-05:002011-05-05T14:53:40.294-05:00Compression: A postpartum woman's best friend. (The Best $100+ I Ever Spent!)Towards the end of my second pregnancy I had an interesting conversation with a dear friend's wife. We were discussing our c-section recoveries, and apparently her OB prescribed a compression "garment" to aid in her recovery from surgery. Compression garment? I marveled. I wondered why my OB (who teaches at Harvard!) never mentioned this little bit of advice to me.<br />
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I got home and promptly forgot about our conversation. About two months later Miss Rosie was born, and my recovery was quick and easy compared to The Talker's. A compression garment never crossed my mind: Rosie kept me very busy! But during my third pregnancy the idea resurfaced in my mind, and I did a little research. Apparently abdominal binding is commonplace in various cultures, and women report a variety of benefits from compression. Apparently women from Japan to Mexico to England bind their bellies after birth. I ended up buying a compression garment from <a href="http://www.bellefit.com/">Bellefit</a>: it is worn like a half leotard - with hook-and-eye closures to make visits to the bathroom manageable. <br />
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Okay, so take a good, long look at the picture on the right. Yes, that is my belly and me (pretty sure the belly was bigger than the rest of me put together!) about a week before The Bruiser was born. I mean, seriously - how did I even stand <i>up</i>!?! I look at the photo now, and honestly, I sort of want to cry. My legs look truly insufficient, don't they?<br />
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After all 10+ pounds of the Bruiser arrived, I started itching to try my <a href="http://www.bellefit.com/">BelleFit </a>corset. Yes, my empty belly was lax. And yes, my back ached when I stood. I stooped a bit upon standing, and hobbled around the hospital room for a full day gathering my courage. And yes, I was nervous to wear it - my tummy hadn't fit into anything that small in at least six months. I was afraid I wouldn't be able to get the thing on - and that would've been truly upsetting.<br />
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But both my midwife and my physical therapist recommended that I wear the compression garment ASAP, so as soon as we were settled at home, I shut the door to our bedroom, took a deep breath, <i>exhaled</i>, and squished myself into the Bellefit. The relief I felt was immediate. I stood up straight and felt no discomfort in my back or belly at all. As a girlfriend of mine says, "This thing is a dream!" I was back in my pre-pregnancy "skinny" jeans within three weeks. The Bruiser is now 12 weeks, and I don't need the Bellefit anymore, but I did wear it on Easter Sunday just to smooth things out. Its uses continue!<br />
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And though I haven't tried other belly binding products, I'm not sure how others that simply wrap around your midsection can compare to this one. Bellefit is sort of like one of those 80s bodysuits - minus the bust and arms, of course. You step into it and pull it on, adjust it so the top is pulled right up under your bra, and fastened underneath with hook-and-eye closures. The Bellefit was surprisingly comfortable, though by the end of the day I was ready to take it off. Perhaps that is a sign that it is tight enough to do the job?<br />
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There are other abdominal binders out there, too. Wrap-style binders are fundamentally different - and achieving the right amount of "tightness" seems like it would be difficult. Or at least you'd need a husband or friend to pull it tight enough to make a significant difference, right? I bet any kind of compression helps, though. I just preferred the style of the Bellefit to the others I saw on the Web. <br />
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The bottom line is that I wish I'd had a garment like this after each of my pregnancies! I am grateful to have benefited from the healing graces of compression to restore my midsection to its proper shape. Simply put: compression heals, ladies!<br />
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What was profoundly different for each of my pregnancies was the way they ended. The way each child arrived was unique and deeply meaningful in very different ways.<br />
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Our oldest, the Talker (and sometimes the Reader), was born via c-section after a long labor. My cervix had "failed to progress" in its dilation. I had every intervention in the book: internal fetal monitoring, pitocin, epidural, spinal block...oh, what an overwhelming way to learn about maternal/fetal care in a top-notch teaching hospital. <br />
He was BIG. Nine pounds, five ounces. He had a gigantic head. My recovery was challenging: my incision leaked, I developed mastitis, and I was almost readmitted to the hospital after a week at home due to a very high fever. I struggled emotionally - often feeling confused about why I was disappointed in the birth process. It was difficult, and I didn't really have anyone to relate to, since most of my friends were still single at the time, and pretty much no one I knew, aside from my new neighbor, had a baby or had a c-section. The Talker was - and still is! - a delight. Without him, I think I would've become truly confused about how to be a mother. He was a gentle, easy baby who allowed me the space to process what needed processing. And what a joy to have a son!<br />
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Our second baby, Miss Rosie, was my first VBAC. I cross-posted an article I wrote for the Chicago Moms Blog in 2010 about my experience preparing for her birth. It was an uphill battle - challenging for me and for the Runner, who wanted, undoubtedly, to protect me from any more emotional or physical pain. Miss Rosie was a long labor, too - and though I'd planned to birth naturally, the labor was irregular and long, and I was getting so tired. To regulate my coupling contractions, my midwife suggested a very low pitocin augmentation, which I agreed to. I also suggested an epidural at that point in order to conserve energy for what I anticipated would be a longer pushing phase. This series of decisions turned out to be perfect. I DID push for two and a half hours, but I requested that the epidural be turned down low enough that I could squat and move around as I needed to. The acute burning sensations of birth were numbed by the epidural, but I could still feel her descending and could direct my pushing effectively. Miss Rosie was 9 lbs, 12 oz. Even bigger than the Talker! We couldn't believe it. I had quite a bit of bleeding after her birth - I could have received a transfusion, but our midwife preferred that I take iron supplements for a month and rest, rest, rest. Still - with the complication of heavy bleeding, I felt tremendously more whole following Rosie's birth.<br />
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Last and certainly not least, the Bruiser's birth was notable. I went into labor a mere 20 hours after the conclusion of a terrible snow storm in Chicagoland, and though we could get out of the neighborhood, the roads were still quite slippery. My contractions went from 20 minutes apart to 5 minutes apart within and hour and a half, and we left for the hospital at my midwife's urging. I knew from past experiences to expect that my labor would slow significantly once we pulled into the hospital parking lot. I was right! As I stuffed the last of my granola bars down my throat (they won't let you eat any food in most hospitals during labor - which makes me really cranky!), I could feel my adrenaline surge. Adrenaline is not labor's friend. Once we checked in, my midwife checked my progress. I was at 8cm!!! Wow. That was really something, since labor had been quite manageable up through that point. But...then things slowed down. About five different people swarmed the room as I was getting settled in, taking my blood, putting a fetal monitor on my belly (which would need readjusting every 4-7 minutes because it would not stay put), bringing in the baby warmer and all the supplies they would need once the baby arrived. It was overwhelming, and I started to feel frazzled and distracted from the work that I needed to do. As a people pleaser, I felt that I needed to be smiley and chatty with every nurse or tech that came through the room. This is also bad for labor. The Runner is also a people pleaser, so the two of us were chatting it up with the staff, and my labor took a hike. <br />
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One other piece to note: I have performance anxiety when it comes to labor. With each baby, checking in at the hospital virtually halted my labors. I seem to be one of these people who would prefer to give birth like your house cat: get comfortable in a dark place where I can do what I need to do without being bothered, and all moves along effectively. In a hospital setting, I tend to feel watched and judged - even if I am in the room with people I trust, like the Runner and my midwives! The constant monitoring makes me anxious and frazzled, and the implicit lack of trust in my body to do what it knows how to do makes me angry. That is a BAD cocktail of emotions that presents serious roadblocks to the "love hormone," oxytocin, which is integral for beginning and maintaining labor.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDwGStbpkVR64P1Wux9Wrkma42ARSGkPT0T8CSo_v9joNHngvdY91w61ReYElo2-XM9gzW90JD2Rk_1SLV8Ek8Due3QGxyRDnru_nknoDVK2Ab2Ri9kdCEH3phlHd9D-3EH0AlN86UdQ4/s1600/February%252C+2011+009.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDwGStbpkVR64P1Wux9Wrkma42ARSGkPT0T8CSo_v9joNHngvdY91w61ReYElo2-XM9gzW90JD2Rk_1SLV8Ek8Due3QGxyRDnru_nknoDVK2Ab2Ri9kdCEH3phlHd9D-3EH0AlN86UdQ4/s320/February%252C+2011+009.jpg" width="320" /></a>After breaking my bag of waters and waiting for a long while, the OB on call came in to check on how we were all doing. My midwife reported that I was dialated to 9 on one side of my cervix, but I had a "lip" that made the other side of my cervix feel more like 6 or 7 cm. Knowing of this cervical lip scared me - that was one of the reasons I had a c-section with the Talker. I was instantly afraid of the same outcome, but my midwife assured me that we were not anywhere near discussing a c-section. After a sigh of relief, the OB and midwife suggested that I try to push away the lip. "You can DO that?!" I asked. This might sound completely nuts, but being able to try that made me feel incredibly empowered - like I was able to work with my body to muscle through what some OBs would label as a major setback in labor.<br />
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So we pushed. I pushed from the inside, and my gentle and kind midwife pushed, too. I will spare you, dear Reader, the gory details, but let's just say that while I pushed, she used her hands to push my cervix back over the baby's head. Ouch, right?! You bet. But, all things considered, it wasn't that miserable. I pushed, she pushed, and within 5 or 6 contractions the lip was gone. Then it was time to push the Bruiser out, which was remarkably different from my experience pushing with Miss Rosie.<br />
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Clearly I felt a lot more without the epidural. The sensations were overwhelming at first - burning and stretching sorts of pain, mostly - and it was difficult to focus on the task of pushing. Honestly, I began this phase terrified of the process of pushing. The other sensations were intense and distracting. I know I whined to everyone in the room that I couldn't do it - that I didn't want to. But really, there was no other alternative. Once I steeled myself and got down to business, the pain stopped hijacking my attention. I was able to focus on moving the baby down and out.<br />
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And out he came. All 10 pounds, 3 ounces, and 22 inches of him. Remarkably, I only tore a tiny bit - 5 or 6 stitches worth. My midwife laid him on my chest immediately, completely perfect and new. And then the afterglow of birth began. For about 90 minutes the Runner and I stared at our newest child, marveling over his beauty and sharing the joy of parenthood together.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJM0VXRPCjPMUN7EN_9myqTuhVIVYXGGkH3LyJ5RivEXYVsdmfclPgfREb7dbmfdG-IAgWnPs2w8VPX_RiRFT8dNgMT5j1px5D_a59JYIBm3VjkVh3XiG9OVPRLJrBt92GStijsiMa9gA/s1600/February%252C+2011%252C+p2+003.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJM0VXRPCjPMUN7EN_9myqTuhVIVYXGGkH3LyJ5RivEXYVsdmfclPgfREb7dbmfdG-IAgWnPs2w8VPX_RiRFT8dNgMT5j1px5D_a59JYIBm3VjkVh3XiG9OVPRLJrBt92GStijsiMa9gA/s320/February%252C+2011%252C+p2+003.jpg" width="320" /></a>The recovery from the Bruiser's birth has been the easiest of the three. The two main differences from the other births are: 1. I skipped the epidural (and any other pain meds) and 2. As soon as I got home, I put on a postpartum compression garment (like a girdle!) that helped me regain proper posture more quickly. I'll be writing more on the benefits of compression later this week.<br />
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I am blessed to have carried three beautiful babies to term (and then some!), and I am proud to have brought them forth into this world in three very different, very special ways. The journey of childbirth has been, for me, a process of profound growth and empowerment. I hope all mothers can identify with birth as a special expression of womanhood.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-17190676106468743652011-03-17T09:03:00.000-05:002011-03-17T09:03:54.007-05:00Happy Saint Patrick's Day!I have two wishes for this St. Patrick's Day:<br />
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2. To bring my little Irish laddie home from the hospital.<br />
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Beannachtai na Feile Padraig!Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-83640113085466195172011-03-07T17:56:00.000-06:002011-03-07T17:56:50.264-06:00Motherhood Makes You Powerful<u><span style="color: lime;">NOTE:</span></u><span style="color: lime;"> This original post first appeared on May 9, 2010 on the Chicago Moms Blog. </span><br />
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<a href="http://svmomblog.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83451bae269e201348092afff970c-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: left;"><img alt="0708margaretbreeze-h 432" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d83451bae269e201348092afff970c " height="234" src="http://svmomblog.typepad.com/.a/6a00d83451bae269e201348092afff970c-200wi" style="height: 187px; margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px; width: 142px;" /></a> Motherhood has made me bolder than I ever thought possible. Perhaps it just comes with the territory, but 3 years of caring for my son has created a defensive/offensive place inside me: For him, yes, but also for myself. About a year ago I put this defense-offense strategy into play at a critical time in my life. After a long year and a half of trying, I became pregnant with our second baby. I was determined to give myself a truly fair chance at having a vaginal birth. Our son was delivered by c-section, and my recovery was extremely uncomfortable, both physically and emotionally. I know many, many women who have recovered easily from c-sections and would choose that birthing method again. In fact, 6 of the ten women in my playgroup gave birth to their first child by c-section. That’s sixty percent! YIKES!<br />
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I was about 22 weeks along when I started feeling antsy about the OB/GYN practice I was seeing. My son was 9lbs, 6oz at birth. When I met the head OB in the practice, he read my chart, shook my hand, and exclaimed, “Wow! Nine pounds! That’s a <i>big baby boy!</i>” The underlying message I received, whether he intended it or not, was “If you have another big baby there’s no chance you’ll have a vaginal delivery, lady.” I had shared my desire for a low-intervention, natural childbirth over and over again with the various doctors in the practice. They responded that I could certainly attempt a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean) if that’s what I wanted. I left that appointment so frustrated and angry. I felt like I had to defend my choices over and over again to doctors and nurses who were paying me lip service while being wary of me trusting my body to do the job it was meant to do.<br />
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Honestly, VBAC is not as scary or dangerous as many obstetricians would lead women to believe. Yes, there is a risk of uterine rupture. It’s very small. Statistically, a rupture will occur in about 1 in 180 VBACs. And if a rupture does occur and you are birthing in a hospital with a surgical team present, the rupture is highly unlikely to cause harm to the mother or baby. This is the one of the many things obstetricians are highly trained to deal with: obstetric surgeries and emergencies.<br />
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Doctors are likely to tell you that the risk of uterine rupture doubles with a VBAC. That is true. What they are not telling you is that the risk increases from 0.3%-0.5% to 0.6%-1.0%. In fact, it’s more dangerous for mom and baby to undergo a repeat cesarean than it is to attempt a VBAC (<a href="http://http//www.ican-online.org/vbac/postion-statement-elective-cesareans-riskier-than-vaginal-birth">ICAN</a>).<br />
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But I digress. For another week or so I stressed. Big Time. I wondered if I was being selfish for wanting a vaginal delivery. I worried that my uterus would rupture and kill my baby. I worried that my husband and my friends thought I was crazy. I worried that I would be absolutely alone in my decision. That worry came true. I was alone in the decision. But, ultimately, that was okay. After about a week of agonizing I called <a href="http://www.wswomenshealth.com/">West Suburban Women’s Health</a> in Willowbrook and made an appointment to meet with one of the midwives.<br />
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I switched practices. That decision came easily. Though I fought away feelings of guilt for “abandoning” my previous OBs, I eventually understood that childbirth is not about pleasing people, it’s about getting a job done. And I wanted to participate fully in accomplishing that task. I knew there was a chance that my VBAC would result in another c-section. I tried to prepare myself for that possibility by talking about how to make the surgery as birth-like as possible. I explained to my midwives how I desperately wanted to nurse the baby within an hour of the birth, and I wanted to use a mirror to see the baby being born, since I wouldn’t be able to feel it with a spinal. They supported me beautifully as I worked through the complex emotions I carried around after my c-section. They eased my anxieties when I was still pregnant on my due date, and even met us at the hospital on the Fourth of July because we thought my water had broken. It hadn’t. Days later they cheered me on for over 12 hours of labor - and insisted that I collaborate with them on every single decision in that delivery room.<br />
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Our baby girl was born after two and a half hours of pushing, and she was 9lbs, 12oz. Six ounces heavier than my <i>big baby boy</i>! My recovery was so completely different from after my c-section. I couldn’t believe how much better I felt - and <i>looked </i>- this time. I am still shocked at the differences between the two experiences. Ultimately, however, I am overwhelmingly grateful for my c-section. The joy of having a son, our first child, was perfect. There is nothing like seeing and touching your baby for the first time - not to mention sharing that moment with your partner. But on another level, I am grateful for the experience because it led me to a deeper understanding of myself. I am proud to say that I used my c-section to learn about the situation many OB/GYNs face at their hospitals and through their insurance carriers when they consider allowing VBACs. I learned that midwives are some of the coolest, kindest, most patient, and most empowering women I know. And perhaps most importantly, I re-learned how to trust my body and revel in the miraculous things it can do.<br />
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I wouldn’t change a thing. Motherhood has made me powerful.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-2966291875695745872011-03-04T17:03:00.000-06:002011-03-04T17:03:06.139-06:00Welcome to the Bruiser!On February 3rd, we joyfully welcomed our third baby. Around here, we'll call him the Bruiser. He weighed in at 10 pounds, 3 ounces and was 22 inches long. We've been recovering well at home, and life is returning rapidly to a new form of normal. In fact, my own recovery has been the easiest, despite the Bruiser's heft.<br />
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As I've reflected on my recovery, I've wondered what has made this go around easier than the others. There are many thoughts running around in my mind, most of them related to the simple fact that I've done this before. But in talking with friends, I've realized that over the years I've amassed quite of bit of information about labor, birth, and postpartum recovery. So I've planned a series of posts about it all. My guess is that there will be at least six of them, two each for pregnancy, labor & birth, and postpartum recovery. It's likely that once I get going, that will be expanded, but for now, that's the plan.<br />
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Blogging took a long hiatus during the last months before the Bruiser's arrival. Between the holidays and ample contract work, I barely had time to wash the baby clothes so the new one would have something to wear home from the hospital! Additionally, a lot has been going on with the Reader and Miss Rosie. The Reader will be officially tested for a variety of intellectual competencies next week. We discovered, with the help of his amazing preschool teacher, that he's reading at a 5th grade level. More on that later, but I've been investigating giftedness in relation to parenting - though that investigation is on hiatus with the arrival of the Bruiser. We've also been watching Miss Rosie turn into a true toddler. She has full-on tantrums like we've never seen before! But she remains our sweetest darling, too.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-49714064391473653932011-01-12T21:24:00.003-06:002011-01-12T21:27:22.234-06:00A few changes, some scary, some not so muchHello, blog, it's me: your author. Yes, I know it's been quite some time since I've bothered to visit you - or even think about you, frankly. Sorry about that. Life got busy, and you got shelved. It happens, particularly when I'm spending large amounts of time at the computer writing in my actual field of expertise, which is NOT parenting. Ironic, isn't it?<br />
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Seriously, though - we've been going through some lovely growing pains around here, ones that are very good for us, but make us feel somewhat "stretchy" nonetheless. I am 38 weeks pregnant (WHOA!), and though I don't expect the baby to come <i>any </i>day now, really, he or she should show up before Valentine's Day. We're not ready, though. No clothing has been washed, no bassinet prepared, no empty infant car seat riding around in the new-to-us car. Nope, I haven't even packed my bag. Denial, you say? Hmmm...perhaps. I'm arguing for busy, personally, but I'll consider denial. (Even though baby won't: the kicks are coming fast and furious. This little person needs me to wash some kind of clothing worthy of a trip home from the hospital, I think!)<br />
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A few other bits of news of note: The Runner got a terrific new job with some awesome people. Still doing the same day-to-day thing, but without the corporate BS he was slogging through before. AND...we hope it will eventually move us closer to the Atlantic Ocean, the general vicinity of which we consider home. I am so happy for him, too, especially because he is happy!<br />
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Christmas was fantastic here - it snowed on Christmas Eve; we enjoyed the vigil Mass; we celebrated the Feast of the Seven Fishes with dear friends; and the Runner and I watched the kiddos open a sick number of gifts (we blame the grandparents, mostly!) for several hours on Christmas morning while drinking lots of hot coffee. Our elf, Snickers, made it safely back to the North Pole for a much-needed respite from the Talker's frequent requests and pleas to tell Santa this or that. It's a good thing Snickers is home now, too, because he was running out of new places to sit and watch the family behave properly all day long. <br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">It's a new year, so I'm hoping to write more - both here and over at my other, more "serious" blog: <a href="http://intentional-family.blogspot.com/">Intentional Family</a>. We'll see if I can make good on that "resolution" or not. </div>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-26002838215814546292010-09-25T09:40:00.001-05:002010-09-25T09:59:41.586-05:00Home Cookin'<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">So, you all know the Runner and I enjoy cooking. While we were dating we'd regularly make dinner together, typically opening (and finishing!) a bottle of wine by the time we were ready to wash dishes. When not distracted by the needs of the small people in our house, we both find cooking to be relaxing and even exciting - the Runner will try new combinations of old favorites, often performing a ritual that he is quite proud of: putting as many ingredients (leftovers, veggies that are in danger of going bad, random grains and a little meat) into one meal. Sometimes (to my occasional horror) into the same pot. The truth is, however, he understands the chemistry of food quite clearly, which nearly always results in a delicious meal. My cooking skills are more standard - I grew up with a "meat and three" kind of dinner: grilled chicken breast, broccoli, a baked potato, and some salad or maybe a few slices of bread on a dinner plate. Regardless of our default meal "settings," however, we both love to cook - and we both love stir fry.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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<em>*This post was inspired by the complimentary Thomas Professional Stir-fry pan I received through the the Jewel-Osco loyalty rewards program described above.</em>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-38131653198064312862010-08-27T07:48:00.000-05:002010-08-27T07:48:52.039-05:00Eating is a Celebration of Life!Hi All!<br />
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So I'm over at my other blog today: <a href="http://intentional-family.blogspot.com/">Intentional Family</a>, talking about a subject that everyone loves: FOOD. You might be surprised by how "crunchy" I've really become. HA!<br />
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Hope you all have a terrific start to your weekends!Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-31341962872754522022010-08-25T20:51:00.003-05:002010-08-25T20:52:30.058-05:00The Army of Women wants YOU.A few months ago, I joined the Army of Women, a breast cancer research initiative that joins forces with women like you and me to reach their goal of eradicating breast cancer. I received an email from them today explaining a <a href="http://mailing.armyofwomen.org/form/armyofwomen/viewhtml/9z1z5d1ohf6vof6naab9rn3m2856s08721n3ag9icdo">research study in Chicago</a> that incorporates women between the ages of 50-70 who have never been diagnosed with breast cancer.<br />
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I am shamelessly using my blog to promote the study tonight - because I love their philosophy of participation. The Army of Women asks women to join in the fight against breast cancer by signing up to be informed of research studies in the regions - and to perhaps participate in one of these studies.<br />
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Who knows? You might be able to participate in the research that keeps women alive to snuggle up to their families for the rest of their natural lives. Consider joining <a href="https://www.armyofwomen.org/getinvolved">the Army</a>.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-78235236738598614502010-08-19T07:22:00.000-05:002010-08-18T21:42:53.438-05:00NOFO. That's the North Fork to you<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Our family vacation this year was just awesome. We spent 11 days in Mattituck, NY, on the North Fork. We rented kayaks for most of the first week, and the Runner and I took them out every single day, together! Alone! We did take the Talker on a long kayak excursion (probably a total of 4 miles out and back) to a salt marsh to explore the wildlife there. So terrific. The only way it could've been better is if I'd had some chicken necks and string and a bucket for all the blue crabs that would've become an illegal (but delicious) lunch. The Talker's godfather came down for a long weekend, which was a major treat for all of us, especially the Runner. They went clamming, we ate steamers. They went out again, we had the BEST clam chowder (Rhode Island style) courtesy of Gramps (and Froggy Gramps, really).</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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Both sets of grandparents took the kids to the Up & Down Horsey in Greenport! And Miss Rosie found a blueberry bush with enough ripe berries to last her at least a week (and enough to turn her poo bright green. 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Very relaxing.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBB4SPxyeN5SRwQ4WafYhobGncMhg7hiSYQYR4GCJUJhqDxa4AumFk-pcS5ZAFLI9iEbiAXWdRwUDRibfff9IwDyvM5cY2XqcpWDNHXslPK6fadb9f0aO6dl7WitFaC8ekJ63f6mzTB4M/s1600/DSCF1380.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBB4SPxyeN5SRwQ4WafYhobGncMhg7hiSYQYR4GCJUJhqDxa4AumFk-pcS5ZAFLI9iEbiAXWdRwUDRibfff9IwDyvM5cY2XqcpWDNHXslPK6fadb9f0aO6dl7WitFaC8ekJ63f6mzTB4M/s320/DSCF1380.JPG" /></a>We didn't have a single bad beach day, and the Talker took to the water like a slippery, white otter. He even played a bit with his sister. It was a week full to the brim with blessings and family time, and I'm pretty sure it was desperately needed by all of us. We came home renewed and ready for whatever the coming chill holds. Except maybe for the actual chill part. At least I would be willing to pass on that. It's possible that these pictures will find their way into a post in January when the snow is six inches deep but the Talker still has school. Ahhh, sweet home, Chicago.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidSFo7txb2kmdy_HjAOQq9u4yopRcqoL3sIUpaoxH0dhJskakfQMK-Pvdo-2uJovyEtj8DkT1D2Lg9aqFdE_7UIILK3OfnhwNc2J_5tSkUYXJg-D4EX8jJTXPkAP-9AAXeziiegAIrx0k/s1600/DSCF1391.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" ox="true" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEidSFo7txb2kmdy_HjAOQq9u4yopRcqoL3sIUpaoxH0dhJskakfQMK-Pvdo-2uJovyEtj8DkT1D2Lg9aqFdE_7UIILK3OfnhwNc2J_5tSkUYXJg-D4EX8jJTXPkAP-9AAXeziiegAIrx0k/s320/DSCF1391.JPG" /></a></div>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-92146830320124757442010-08-18T20:55:00.001-05:002010-08-18T21:21:04.053-05:00It's been a while...againI'm not sure what's keeping me from the blog lately. I think it's a classic case of self-induced pressure + writer's block. A dear friend of mine reminded me (via her excellent blog, <a href="http://www.thetravelingcircus.com/">The Traveling Circus</a>) recently that I really shouldn't let perfection be the enemy of good. I think I fall prey to that logic too often - wallowing in a sometimes-obsessive need for perfection while sitting very still.<br />
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If it were New Year's Day, or Lent, I'd have one hell of a resolution.<br />
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Perhaps I should just deal with it in real time, though. Not wait for that golden opportunity to arrive in which I can easily change...I suppose this is because change is likely the toughest challenge we can ever face as individuals. If you truly want to modify something about the way to face the world - it takes honest-to-God dedication and hard work! Am I up for that? If I took the easy way out, I'd wait for Lent.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-44059728872604926242010-07-13T23:11:00.000-05:002010-07-13T23:11:13.435-05:00Exploring the Michigan CoastWe are East Coast babies in our house. I hate to admit that sometimes, because folks from the Midwest are truly so much nicer than we are - and we'd be lucky to be Midwesterners, but we're just not. Our real problem has always stemmed from a bit of snobbery surrounding access to an ocean. You know: Saltwater. Seafood. Undertow.<br />
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The Runner is not only a snobby East Coaster, he's also a stuck up New Englander. (Sorry, babe!) I don't mean that he is rude - quite the contrary. What I mean is that he likes certain things to be a certain way. Roads, for example. They should be windy and have trees that could be growing into your lane. Sugaring sap should run in most of them, too. There is no Spring where he is from, just Mud Season. I, too, have my moments. Mine typically center on access to fresh seafood and not being "land locked." Ridiculous, I am aware. But still. When we first moved to Chicagoland I went to 4 different grocery stores before I could find a tin of Old Bay. (The pride of Maryland!) I was extremely agitated by this - what kind of place were we living in now? Clearly we were no where <em>near </em>the Bay, and I wouldn't be organizing large crab feasts in our backyard with tons of newspaper and paper towels and melted butter. I mean, honestly, Dwyer. What were you expecting?!<br />
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Much of this changed, however, over the Fourth of July weekend. On a whim that was characteristic of our lives before homeownership, we skipped town with zero plan on Saturday morning, just knowing that we were headed to the Michigan Coast to check things out. <br />
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WOW. There were windy roads and farm stands and trees threatening to shove us into oncoming traffic. There was a big sandy beach with Mattituck-like waves. There were even signs alerting swimmers to the dangers of an undertow<em>. </em>An <strong><em>undertow!</em></strong> In Lake Michigan! (I didn't need to read it, though. I could recite that warning in my sleep.) The sand was so hot it burned The Runner's feet! I did miss the salt and seafood, though. But the perk of no salt is that you don't feel desperate for a shower immediately after leaving the beach.<br />
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We started in Holland and had a yummy lunch at the <a href="http://www.newhollandbrew.com/">New Holland Brewing Company</a>. Several of The Runner's friends had recommended it (for the beer), but the food was quite good on its own, especially the homemade hummus. Then we hit <a href="http://www.dnr.state.mi.us/parksandtrails/Details.aspx?id=458&type=SPRK">Holland State Park</a> where we burned our feet, read the riptide warning, swam, and threw some sand at other small children. Oh, wait, that was The Talker. <br />
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</div>The whole coastline was gorgeous. And everyone we've talked to since said it just gets more pristine and lovely as you drive north. Who knows? Maybe our next adventure will take us up to Traverse City? If you can't beat 'em (or organize a crab feast), join 'em.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-86060624153508471332010-07-08T21:54:00.000-05:002010-07-08T21:54:05.010-05:00HAPPY BIRTHDAY ROSIE!<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Our smiley flower turns ONE today! This year has simply flown by. Between the exhaustion of a new (and refluxy) baby and a regular school schedule for the Talker, the time just whizzed on past. I feel a bit sad about that. She is changing fast - developing a formidable personality to compete with the other three attention grabbers in our house. Yes, I've included the Runner and myself. I'm honest, at least.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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Two months of no blogging! That's just too long. I don't really have many excuses to give for my laziness, though we have been going through a few family adjustments since May. But seriously, when are we not?!<br />
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Since I last wrote I've completed the Naperville Women's Triathlon, we've enjoyed our local swim and tennis club (still enjoying!), witnessed my father being ordained a Roman Catholic deacon (SO AWESOME.), and explored part of the Michigan coastline (gorgeous, sans salt). It's been a busy two months. We've got lots and lots of pictures to come - with stories to compliment them. Or captions at least. <br />
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And I'd been writing for the Chicago Moms Blog for the last several months, but their organization suddenly decided to close shop, so I've been avoiding blogging while I try to figure out whether or not I want to join up with a new Chicago mommy blogging community. I'm still on the fence. The thing is, I don't consider myself much of a self-marketer trying to "create my brand." Frankly, I'm not sure if that's even <em>real</em>. I'm interested in writing, of course, but I was running out of clever things to say to all of Chicago's moms on "the big blog." For now I think I'm going to play it close to the vest and just write here for a while. And while I can't promise an all-kids-all-the-time theme, it does seem to be the one I like best.Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-86777089952949019142010-05-19T20:45:00.001-05:002010-05-19T20:46:10.897-05:00Sensitive RosieEver since we met that July day in the hospital, I tend to get emotional thinking about my daughter's future. I frequently imagine her as a little girl, then as a preteen, as an older teenager, and finally a young woman. My eyes mist the most when I imagine her as a mother. This is all ridiculous, I realize, because she may never be a mom - either by choice or by circumstance. But she will grow up, and that will happen faster than I am willing to admit.<br />
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<div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2itTcQZuZRB0MKeKgU5xKMjuVWffW9zb6SVmV4lH9wfh3HJbiLHzng1XtI7xh9HfyXfUK-tele79pr8cjzn-W6Vrn9uDPbfQ-TyQSK1Ou6awUf_XpWVul-wT15Ujh6iZyBApujTVyj2g/s1600/DSCF1030.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2itTcQZuZRB0MKeKgU5xKMjuVWffW9zb6SVmV4lH9wfh3HJbiLHzng1XtI7xh9HfyXfUK-tele79pr8cjzn-W6Vrn9uDPbfQ-TyQSK1Ou6awUf_XpWVul-wT15Ujh6iZyBApujTVyj2g/s200/DSCF1030.JPG" width="200" wt="true" /></a></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Truth be told, Miss Rosie is a sensitive one - she cries hysterically when I turn on the garbage disposal and screeches when we run the blender. I try so hard to prepare her for the noises, but no amount of preparation will take the edge off of being startled into tears. It's hard, watching and hearing her cry so hard.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">And I know that this sensitivity isn't going anywhere. That's okay; I lean to the sensitive side myself. I can relate to those see-saw feelings when life is out of balance. It almost as if I can see my baby girl as a someday-teenager, struggling to develop her identity and understand her changing body. I can feel her teetering on the see-saw of balance, desperately trying to understand all the pieces that beautifully make up her whole essence. And I know that I have to prepare myself now to be open to her questions, her curiosities, and her tears. She deserves that from her mother.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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</div><span style="font-size: x-small;"><em>*I was motivated to write this post by <u>The Body Scoop for Girls: A Straight Talk Guide to a Healthy, Beautiful You</u>, by Jennifer Ashton, MD, OB/Gyn. I received a complimentary copy of the book as part of the Silicon Valley Moms Group bookclub.</em></span>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-70831897492165513022010-05-14T08:00:00.001-05:002010-05-14T08:00:10.696-05:00Mother's Day on Chicago Moms BlogI forgot to post this last weekend, but I wrote a (slightly emotional) post for Chicago Moms Blog that happened to go live on Mother's Day. It was just a little reflection on where I "was" about a year ago - and making challenging choices about childbirth. It was good for me to write it, if nothing else. Enjoy if you so choose!<br />
<a href="http://www.chicagomomsblog.com/2010/05/motherhood-makes-you-powerful-rtp.html#tp">http://www.chicagomomsblog.com/2010/05/motherhood-makes-you-powerful-rtp.html#tp</a>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-63870091897033658642010-05-13T23:29:00.002-05:002010-05-13T23:52:27.979-05:00Meanwhile, We Actually Have a Good Vocabulary<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">The Talker is using two new words in his up-to-the-minute lingo: <em>actually </em>and <em>meanwhile.</em></div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">The scary thing? He worked <em>meanwhile </em>into a sentence today - correctly.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I don't use <em>meanwhile, </em>like, EVER. I do use <em>actually</em>. I'm wondering where <em>meanwhile </em>came from. For a four year old, <em>meanwhile </em>is a 10-cent word! I think <em>actually </em>is worth at least 8 cents. Perhaps they show up in <u>Charlotte's Web</u>, The Talker's favorite rainy day book. (Who am I kidding? He reads it on sunny, warm days, too, when he should be hankering to go outside!)</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizwUj25O-eo99qV0M0itrCKM6uwrtrBARtwVzShriH2exT48SfRj1mcKgt9zXq7SI5MlClywfWYstkbbM5E4RCVv36sF4_dLc92QXvFF8hk2pkisynjmBA_CVXvGFGrZXXt1yi2O553Do/s1600/Tommy+is+silly.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizwUj25O-eo99qV0M0itrCKM6uwrtrBARtwVzShriH2exT48SfRj1mcKgt9zXq7SI5MlClywfWYstkbbM5E4RCVv36sF4_dLc92QXvFF8hk2pkisynjmBA_CVXvGFGrZXXt1yi2O553Do/s200/Tommy+is+silly.jpg" width="150" wt="true" /></a>On our way home from school I told him, "You have quite a vocabulary, young man." </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">"What's a vocabulary, Mom?"</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">"Hmmm...a vocabulary is all the words that you know and use when you talk or write."</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">"Oh. Actually, I knew that already."</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Okay, maybe he didn't say that last bit, but I often feel pretty humbled by this boy's facility with language and his enjoyment of storing and classifying large quantities of information. <em>Actually, </em>humbled is way too generous. I need to start doing more crossword puzzles in my "free time." Maybe Nana could help me out with this one. The Talker's vocabulary is getting a little too big for my comfort zone! But of course we can't stifle this - it's a sign of good things to come, right?</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">But this varied and expansive vocabulary is not without its 2-cent words.Yesterday he stepped out on to our front steps with his awesome firetruck rain slicker on and announced, "Oh, crap! It's raining out here!" The Runner informed me that The Talker sounded just like his sweet mommy.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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I suppose it's better than the alternative, right?Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-82983267383170994962010-04-30T14:15:00.000-05:002010-04-30T14:15:50.326-05:00Running Investments<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhS3d9qTrIb67jpRsmEdojI-670I5MTpih79UjvaVFMFt7GXTW6EUVlofGP945WvCMUNw97WVU1VNcLvaMzxPzI37vPvdOAb0nnGvUK7HPMJ3s2JcT1Ql2pe81akru5tto9bcSDyPsob0k/s1600/DSCF1060.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhS3d9qTrIb67jpRsmEdojI-670I5MTpih79UjvaVFMFt7GXTW6EUVlofGP945WvCMUNw97WVU1VNcLvaMzxPzI37vPvdOAb0nnGvUK7HPMJ3s2JcT1Ql2pe81akru5tto9bcSDyPsob0k/s320/DSCF1060.JPG" tt="true" width="320" /></a>It has begun. Today is Day 3 of Marathon Training. Is it bad that according to my training plan I was supposed to run 5 miles on Wednesday (ran 2.5 - then lifted), 2 miles on Thursday (ran 0!!) and another 5 today (actually made it to the Y and ran 6.2 - that's something at least)? Clearly I will be FINE - but I am marveling at the differences in my attitude towards training as compared to 7 years ago. Oh, dear, has it really been that long since I've trained for a marathon?? I was once precise and focused, now I am frazzled and into approximations. Hmmmm...probably no PR in my immediate future.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">So - assuming all goes somewhat according to plan, I will be running the Nike Women's Marathon in San Francisco in October 2010. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Thank goodness for our new double stroller. There is absolutely no way I would manage to train without it. The truth is that I no longer have an excuse NOT to run - now that I can put both kids in it and GO, I am pretty much obligated to do just that. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3MTZM-nfMLhequalDxYaH4v5xnxJ8VNiRud7xDPfuTZa6oI8pyTJeLmuLKct0ulWW_qac9DKGuYeSdZAvkc46KQNccWZFWq0hAPDtvJOdnNza9H17XrcoVEU7VFlE9LrVr4ansCAUdVc/s1600/DSCF1064.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; cssfloat: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3MTZM-nfMLhequalDxYaH4v5xnxJ8VNiRud7xDPfuTZa6oI8pyTJeLmuLKct0ulWW_qac9DKGuYeSdZAvkc46KQNccWZFWq0hAPDtvJOdnNza9H17XrcoVEU7VFlE9LrVr4ansCAUdVc/s320/DSCF1064.JPG" tt="true" /></a>About a month ago, we picked up the double BOB Ironman stroller from the <a href="http://www.runningcompany.com/">Naperville Running Company</a>. It is AWESOME. We happen to be connected in the world of running, but if you're not and you're a runner, it is so worth saving your money for. I thought it would be tough to turn - let alone push - with two very different sized children riding in it. On the contrary, it is suprisingly easy to maneuver around corners and over bumps. We are oh-so happy with it, and so are the kids!</div>Eileenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04851351332181234109noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5143956136367371468.post-70778717819864154052010-04-27T08:22:00.001-05:002010-04-27T08:22:01.193-05:00Sleep Training: Confessions in the NightHi Family! Hi Friends! <br />
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<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6AW1j057umh3d-uNe5QaNRPyebsVHT0uzsTfwxl3ZSySheoYQIK98ntClx7FPRr3R6gDn-15N2Lor3lqabib959kqQ9_c4fp6R1R-HI3Qih8_0CthqVCXTHCgiJ1KaOp3klzysXrqU8o/s1600/DSCF1118.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; cssfloat: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6AW1j057umh3d-uNe5QaNRPyebsVHT0uzsTfwxl3ZSySheoYQIK98ntClx7FPRr3R6gDn-15N2Lor3lqabib959kqQ9_c4fp6R1R-HI3Qih8_0CthqVCXTHCgiJ1KaOp3klzysXrqU8o/s320/DSCF1118.JPG" tt="true" width="320" /></a>You can find me over at <a href="http://www.chicagomomsblog.com/">Chicago Moms Blog</a> today, stressing over sleep training Miss Rosie. Last night she was up at 4am, same as the night before! Her sweet Daddy took care of her so I could rest before my big triathlon workout this morning: all three disciplines - and with a friend, too! If you have tips on how to keep her asleep until at least the six o'clock hour, I am ALL ears.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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